The holidays can be a stressful time for many people. Here are 10 ways to survive the holidays and keep them stress-free!
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The holidays can be so stressful for some of us. All the shopping and cooking and cleaning and wrapping presents. And don’t forget all the holiday events going on. It’s impossible to do everything and not get a little stressed out!
Black Friday used to be so stressful for me because I wanted to get all of my shopping done that day. Over the years I finally let that thought go because it’s impossible to do. Over the past few years Black Friday has become a tradition for my mom and I. We have a list of gift ideas we want to get, but if we can’t find something it’s no big deal. It’s fun to just spend a day with my mom. Especially since our shopping day turns into a 12 hour day full of laughs.
Now with the internet and Cyber Monday I can finish my Christmas shopping online from the comfort of my couch under my blanket with my coffee in hand. And I don’t have to carry all that stuff! This is how I’ve learned to survive the holidays stress-free. At least the shopping part anyway.
I’ve come up with a list of 10 ways to survive the holidays stress-free. I hope someone finds this list helpful because my hope for you is to enjoy your holiday without any negativity or stress this year.
When you start feeling stressed, take a little break and go outside. The fresh air and sunshine will make you feel so much better, even if it’s just for a few minutes.
Take a 30-minute walk around the block or a quick hike through the woods to walk away the stress. According to health.com, walking has a tranquilizing effect on your brain due to the repetition and rhythm it provides. This effect will improve your sleep and decrease any anxiety. It sounds like a win either way!
Citrus scents boost energy as well as alertness. The scent of lemon can also reduce stress. While you’re cleaning for the holidays, use lemon-scented cleaners for a refreshing pick-me-up. You could also try diffusing some lemon or citrus scented essential oils around your home.
Doing too much – shopping, events, cooking, etc – causes a lot of stress, especially if we’re trying to do everything at the last minute. It’s okay to say no to some of these things. You don’t have to attend every event. People will understand.
Find a reason to have a good laugh. Take a few minutes to watch a funny video on YouTube or take a little longer and watch your favorite comedy movie. What makes me laugh? Watching videos of babies laughing. Gets me every time.
Thinking everything is going to be perfect is insanely stressful. Let go of the perfectionism and you will enjoy your holiday so much more! Every single time I’ve ever tried to have the perfect anything it has turned into a hot mess. I stressed over getting everything just right and realized I wasted so much time. When I didn’t bother to be so perfect and I just let it happen, I found so much joy in the situation.
I try to wrap any presents as soon as I get them so I’m not stressing myself out by waiting until the last minute. Plus, it makes my tree look more festive if there are presents under it sooner than just Christmas day. Tip: buy extra tape ahead of time!
Keep a master shopping list handy so that whenever you think of something you need you can write it down immediately. I not only do this for Christmas shopping, but I also keep an ongoing grocery list as well. I’m a list girl, so I have lists for everything! My husband is a tech geek so all of his lists are on his phone or computer and mine are on paper. Whatever works for you to keep things stress-free.
If you have too much going on, don’t be afraid to ask for help! Asking for help is not showing a sign of weakness. I’ve had to learn this the hard way throughout my life.
Even if you have to schedule it in, make sure you’re taking a little time for yourself. Go for a massage. Or fill up a bubble bath, put on your favorite music and lock the bathroom door. My idea of relaxing quiet time is grabbing a good book and hiding in the corner of a bookstore for a while. There’s nothing like the smell of books and coffee mingling together!
What stress-free tips would you add to my list to help you survive the holidays?
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Very helpful tips Michelle!?
Thank you so much! I'm glad you found them helpful!
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I agree with you Michelle, this season can be very stressful. I miss my dad a lot. Yes, taking walks absolutely help though. Weather is much nicer here in Oregon as opposed to Wisconsin.
I can understand missing your dad. I'm missing my grandparents a lot this year. It's great that you have better weather so you can get outside when you're feeling stressed. :)
Great tips. I enjoy the holidays so much more now that I relax and realize everything does not have to be done perfectly, and doesn't all have to be done by me. Gift cards also make shopping so much easier. A Christmas stocking with personal care items (battery toothbrush, tooth paste, lip balm, nail clippers etc) and a few fun items make a good gift to hold. Gift card is the real gift. Enjoy the season and the people.
The Christmas stocking is such a great idea! I agree that gift cards are a great and easy gift. Then people can get what they actually want and no money is wasted. :)
I won’t add another thing. Great tips! Love your tradition with your mom! Wishing you and your family an amazing holiday season!
Thank you so much! Wishing you and your family a very merry Christmas!
Not everything is perfect is a great reminder, it's easy to get swept up with that thought this time of year.
Great advice and post Michelle! Xxx
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Lovely tips, Michelle. At this time why must we be stressed out. Instead do what we feel like. Great post
Thank you so much! I have to agree with you. There's no reason to put extra stress on ourselves.
Yes for sure. You are always welcome Michelle ???